Ladies Are You Settling In Your Relationship, Before You Get In Too Deep?

All women are worthy of a great relationship!

It's understood that, people are who they are and we can not change them, noted. However, in practice, women are constantly trying to do just that. When women can't change a man, they start modifying their behaviors, wants and needs to be more accommodating, ultimately resulting in resentment and dissatisfaction in our relationships.

 Photo taken from Huffington Post 

Photo taken from Huffington Post 

And, at some point down the line, we realize that we have settled.

Luckily, there is a way to figure out if you're settling in your relationship before you get in too deep. Take a moment to answer these few questions truthfully:

  1. Do you see yourself with someone else in the long-run?
  2. Are you in an 'open' relationship, but you - and only you - want it to be exclusive?
  3. Even though you're with someone, do you often wonder when you'll meet someone else?
  4. Do you wish you could change a not-so-short list of things about your current mate?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then yes, you are settling. In fact, if you even have to ask yourself, "am I settling?" then, in all likelihood, you probably are.

If you take nothing else away from this article, remember the following affirmation. Say it daily. Write it on your bathroom mirror. Put a post-it on your refrigerator.