How You Know You’re Officially Into A Guy
If you’re anything like me, I hide from my feelings until the last possible second. Honestly now that the pressure of Valentine’s Day is over and done with and spring is (hopefully) in the air – I’m feeling pretty romantic and I have a sneaky feeling that love is too.
So here are some sure fire ways to know that you’re really into them and getting a little bit – dare I say it – invested!
You find ways to bring them up in conversation. You catch yourself just name-dropping them just to bring yourself a little joy. (If you are doing this, your friends totally are on to you btw.)
You want to buy things for them before yourself. Suddenly you’re just seeing everything that makes you think of them and you want to buy them that book or that note card or their favorite piece of candy. Suddenly you don’t mind spending your money on them even though you’ve already denied yourself a Sephora purchase until next paycheck.
You text them goodnight. I mean let’s be real, they have been who you’ve been thinking about before you go to bed for a while. But now you can’t resist letting them know.
You will rearrange your schedule to hang out with them. I don’t know about you but when I’m just casually dating, if it’s not convenient then it’s not happening. Now you’re finding yourself playing Tetris with your schedule to make sure you have time to fit them in. You’re looking forward to time with them.
You think ahead. Oh, boy, this one is actually scary. Now, you’re not doodling your first name with his last name in your notebook. (Plus, I don’t even know if I would take a guy’s last name in general.) But you kinda find yourself predicting what’s going to happen down the line and how far you see the relationship going. Even if you’re not in one yet. You let yourself dream of the potential.
And, I mean, that’s kind of nice. You have hope. Commitment is a pretty scary thing for me and a lot of people but this stuff – when you realize that you’re really super into someone – is kind of the best. <3